Fix missing force-build, use non-docker publish action, be nice to cache (#11688)

* Fix missing force-build and use non-docker publish action

Fixes #11687
Fixes #10404

* Initial deletion of build_check_cache

Start to fold functionality into build_deps, but definitely broken.

* Tests can be built separately

Missed this before

* Create artifact for all platforms, fix cache usage

Cache is only created on `main` branch.
Artifact is used to move files between jobs.
The Linux artifact was broken, now it's not.
The Mac artifact didn't exist, now it does.
The Windows artifact gets a new name and now isn't a
zip-within-a-zip. Perhaps this will cause a permissions problem; we
will see shortly.

* Apparently cannot update env used for `if` mid-stream

* Force-build causes a clean deps build

* Either build or pull from cache

Cache only has final output, not intermediate files. So we either
build or use the cache.

* Keep dep uploads for 10 days instead

It's just the final object outputs, not intermediates, so it's not as
large and we can keep it slightly longer.

.github/workflows/build_check_cache.yml

@@ -1,62 +0,0 @@
-name: Check Cache
-
-on:
-  workflow_call:
-    inputs:
-      os:
-        required: true
-        type: string
-      arch:
-        required: false
-        type: string
-      build-deps-only:
-        required: false
-        type: boolean
-      force-build:
-        required: false
-        type: boolean
-  
-jobs:
-  check_cache: # determines if there is a cache and outputs variables used in caching process
-    name: Check Cache
-    runs-on: ${{ inputs.os }}
-    outputs:
-      cache-key: ${{ steps.set_outputs.outputs.cache-key }}
-      cache-path: ${{ steps.set_outputs.outputs.cache-path }}
-      valid-cache: ${{ steps.cache_deps.outputs.cache-hit }}
-    steps:
-      - name: Checkout
-        uses: actions/checkout@v6
-        with:
-          lfs: 'true'
-        
-      - name: set outputs
-        id: set_outputs
-        env:
-          dep-folder-name: ${{ inputs.os != 'macos-14' && '/OrcaSlicer_dep' || '' }}
-          output-cmd: ${{ inputs.os == 'windows-latest' && '$env:GITHUB_OUTPUT' || '"$GITHUB_OUTPUT"'}}
-        run: |
-          echo cache-key=${{ inputs.os }}-cache-orcaslicer_deps-build-${{ hashFiles('deps/**') }} >> ${{ env.output-cmd }}
-          echo cache-path=${{ github.workspace }}/deps/build${{ env.dep-folder-name }} >> ${{ env.output-cmd }}
-            
-      - name: load cache
-        id: cache_deps
-        uses: actions/cache@v4
-        with:
-          path: ${{ steps.set_outputs.outputs.cache-path }}
-          key: ${{ steps.set_outputs.outputs.cache-key }}
-          lookup-only: true
-        
-  build_deps: # call next step
-    name: Build Deps
-    needs: [check_cache]
-    uses: ./.github/workflows/build_deps.yml
-    with:
-      cache-key: ${{ needs.check_cache.outputs.cache-key }}
-      cache-path: ${{ needs.check_cache.outputs.cache-path }}
-      valid-cache: ${{ needs.check_cache.outputs.valid-cache == 'true' }}
-      os: ${{ inputs.os }}
-      arch: ${{ inputs.arch }}
-      build-deps-only: ${{ inputs.build-deps-only }}
-      force-build: ${{ inputs.force-build }}
-    secrets: inherit